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we think fear ought to be classed with stealing. It
seems to cause more trouble.
We reviewed our fears thoroughly. We put them on
paper, even though we had no resentment in connec­
tion with them. We asked ourselves why we had
them. Wasn’t it because self-reliance failed us? Self-
reliance was good as far as it went, but it didn’t go far
enough. Some of us once had great self-confidence,
but it didn’t fully solve the fear problem, or any other.
When it made us cocky, it was worse.
Perhaps there is a better way—we think so. For we
are now on a different basis; the basis of trusting and
relying upon God. We trust infinite God rather than
our finite selves. We are in the world to play the role
He assigns. Just to the extent that we do as we think
He would have us, and humbly rely on Him, does He
enable us to match calamity with serenity.
We never apologize to anyone for depending upon
our Creator. We can laugh at those who think spiritu­
ality the way of weakness. Paradoxically, it is the way
of strength. The verdict of the ages is that faith means
courage. All men of faith have courage. They trust
their God. We never apologize for God. Instead we
let Him demonstrate, through us, what He can do. We
ask Him to remove our fear and direct our attention to
what He would have us be. At once, we commence to
outgrow fear.
Now about sex. Many of us needed an overhauling
there. But above all, we tried to be sensible on this
question. It’s so easy to get way off the track. Here
we find human opinions running to extremes—absurd
extremes, perhaps. One set of voices cry that sex is a
lust of our lower nature, a base necessity of procrea­