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                                     very much. But from our meeting, A.A. was born here
                                     in Quebec.
                                       The Fellowship started to grow, most particularly
                                     following the publicity we got in the  Gazette  in the
                                     spring of 1945. I will never forget the day that Mary
                                     came to see me—she was the first woman to join our
                                     Fellowship here. She was very shy and reserved, very
                                     low-key. She had heard of the Fellowship through the
                                     Gazette.
                                       For the first year, all the meetings were held in my
                                     home. There were people all over the house. The
                                     wives of members used to come with their husbands,
                                     though we didn’t allow them in our closed meetings.
                                     They used to sit on the bed or in the kitchen, where
                                     they would make coffee and snacks. I believe they
                                     were wondering what would happen to us. Yet they
                                     were as happy as we were.
                                       The first two French Canadians to learn about A.A.
                                     did so in the basement of my home. All French-speak-
                                     ing meetings in existence today were born out of those
                                     early meetings.
                                       At the end of my first year of sobriety, my wife
                                     agreed to leave her job after I found some work. I
                                     thought that would be easy. All I had to do was go see
                                     an employer and I’d be able to support my family in
                                     a normal fashion. However, I looked for work for
                                     many months. We didn’t have much money, and I was
                                     spending the little we had going from one place to the
                                     other, answering ads and meeting people. I was get­
                                     ting more and more discouraged. One day, a member
                                     said, “Dave, why don’t you apply at the aircraft fac­
                                     tory? I know a fellow there who could help you.” So
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