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                                 normal, will do incredible things. Afterward, his
                                 revulsion will be terrible. Nearly always, these antics
                                 indicate nothing more than temporary conditions.
                                    This is not to say that all alcoholics are honest and
                                 upright when not drinking. Of course that isn’t so,
                                 and such people often may impose on you. Seeing
                                 your attempt to understand and help, some men will
                                 try to take advantage of your kindness. If you are
                                 sure your man does not want to stop, he may as well
                                 be discharged, the sooner the better. You are not
                                 doing him a favor by keeping him on. Firing such an
                                 individual may prove a blessing to him. It may be
                                 just the jolt he needs. I know, in my own particular
                                 case, that nothing my company could have done would
                                 have stopped me for, so long as I was able to hold my
                                 position, I could not possibly realize how serious my
                                 situation was. Had they fired me first, and had they
                                 then taken steps to see that I was presented with the
                                 solution contained in this book, I might have returned
                                 to them six months later, a well man.
                                    But there are many men who want to stop, and with
                                 them you can go far. Your understanding treatment
                                 of their cases will pay dividends.
                                    Perhaps you have such a man in mind. He wants to
                                 quit drinking and you want to help him, even if it be
                                 only a matter of good business. You now know more
                                 about alcoholism. You can see that he is mentally and
                                 physically sick. You are willing to overlook his past
                                 performances. Suppose an approach is made some­
                                 thing like this:
                                    State that you know about his drinking, and that it
                                 must stop. You might say you appreciate his abilities,
                                 would like to keep him, but cannot if he continues to
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