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                                 over a spree, a certain amount of physical treatment
                                 is desirable, even imperative. The matter of physical
                                 treatment should, of course, be referred to your
                                 own doctor. Whatever the method, its object is to
                                 thoroughly clear mind and body of the effects of alco­
                                 hol. In competent hands, this seldom takes long nor
                                 is it very expensive. Your man will fare better if
                                 placed in such physical condition that he can think
                                 straight and no longer craves liquor. If you propose
                                 such a procedure to him, it may be necessary to ad­
                                 vance the cost of treatment, but we believe it should
                                 be made plain that any expense will later be deducted
                                 from his pay. It is better for him to feel fully respon­
                                 sible.
                                    If your man accepts your offer, it should be pointed
                                 out that physical treatment is but a small part of the
                                 picture. Though you are providing him with the best
                                 possible medical attention, he should understand that
                                 he must undergo a change of heart. To get over drink­
                                 ing will require a transformation of thought and atti­
                                 tude. We all had to place recovery above everything,
                                 for without recovery we would have lost both home
                                 and business.
                                    Can you have every confidence in his ability to
                                 recover? While on the subject of confidence, can you
                                 adopt the attitude that so far as you are concerned
                                 this will be a strictly personal matter, that his alco­
                                 holic derelictions, the treatment about to be under­
                                 taken, will never be discussed without his consent?
                                 It might be well to have a long chat with him on his
                                 return.
                                    To return to the subject matter of this book: It con­
                                 tains full suggestions by which the employee may
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